Ethiopia Highlights Part 2

Monday, October 5^th

We woke up Monday morning ready to go! Today was our first full day at the Care Point with the kids. We were going to set out the care packages we brought: letters, photos, and NEW SHOES for every child in the program! They also got their name tags with their sponsors’ names on them or “Jesus Loves Me” if they were unsponsored. It was a gorgeous morning, clear and sunny. But I wasn’t feeling so great. The long plane trip and the heavy foods were taking its toll. I didn’t want to miss a thing, so I powered through. Xavier and I were so excited to see Yosefe, our family’s sponsored boy as we drove up that morning. After we set out the care packages, we went to get set up for our craft station. After the kids sat with the translators and Ryan, Britany and Cheri, they would come to Xavier, Vanessa and me to do the finger painting craft. I sat down and wrote the kids’ names on the backs of the canvases as each kid came, then a couple of the church leaders would explain the craft to the kids and they would get started. It was fun to watch this new experience for most of them. I also enjoyed getting to interact one on one with each kid as I wrote their name. The leaders taught me the Amharic word for friend “gwa-den-ya”, so I could tell the kids that their sponsors were my friends. We made it through about half the kids when we had to stop for lunch. Our group went to a restaurant for lunch, and I went back to my room to rest. After that break, I felt much better.

It was a rainy afternoon, so we moved inside to finish our crafts. When school let out for the day, some of the older siblings came to help, and it was fun to interact with them. We also took a few of many selfie ops that week!

That evening, we returned to the resort for dinner, debrief and much needed sleep.

Meeting Yosefe for the first time! He's on the left.

Setting out care packages.

Want to be the most popular boy? Be a blond haired boy with glasses and braces in Africa, and you are instantly the life of the party!

Finger painting canvases (if you sponsor, you get one from your kiddo!).

Ah, selfies! Love these faces so much!

For many, finger painting was a first.

Tuesday, October 6^th

Tuesday, I felt so much better! I was excited for the start of the day. We were going to do rotations with groups of kids that day, doing a Bible lesson with Vanessa, a craft with me and Britany and soccer with Ryan and Xavier. Cheri was doing a class with the older girls at the Care Point that morning and one with the mothers that afternoon. We ate breakfast at the resort (we ate it every morning; it was a yummy buffet of donuts, cereal, veggies, and omelettes), then headed to the church for the day. Our craft was photos of the kids from the year before that we had mounted and laminated for the kids to decorate with stickers and markers. It was a fun day. I also got to visit some of the classrooms that day and was very impressed with what the kids are learning. They are being taught English, along with math, science and health education.

Ah, Mr. Popularity! He was never alone.

Checking out the classrooms.

Working hard?

The photo creations! How they loved the foam stickers.

Praying after the Bible lesson. Melt my heart.

Precious boy! Being the life of the party is exhausting.

Wednesday, October 7^th

Wednesday, we returned for home visits. As we waited to get going, we caught up with some of the kids that were absent the day before and did their photo crafts with them. I got to interact with Tewedage for the first time and fell in love with his sweet, bright smile. He loved to show off his English for us by pointing and naming body parts. I knew we would have to sponsor him; he was too cute to not choose!

We visited 6 homes that day, 3 grass huts and 3 concrete houses. It was an honor to be invited into the homes, and we were so blessed by the interactions with the families. It was definitely a highlight of the week and a memory I’ll treasure forever.

Thursday would be our last day at the Care Point; the time went by so quickly, and I knew leaving would be hard.

Precious Tewedage.

The first home we visited.

Another home visit.

Visiting Amose and his grandmother.

These sweet boys!

Stay tuned! Part 3 is coming soon!

Ethiopia Highlights Part 1

So, Xavier and I were blessed to be able to go on a mission trip to Awassa, Ethiopia October 1-11^th. We went with an amazing team: Ryan & Britany Krause, Vanessa Mauk and Cheri Rogers. Our mission was to visit Ryan & Britany’s CarePoint at Alade Genet, to spend time with the children and to dream with the leaders about the future of the kids. It was an amazing and memorable experience, and I am so thankful I got to go with him! Xavier has a very loving and selfless personality and was such a great asset to our team. Along with being helpful with the team and relational with the kids, he also provided much needed comic relief at stressful times. Here is a recap of our trip:

Thursday, October 1^st

We left Buda to drive to Houston for our first flight. We prayed with our families before we left and said our good-byes. From Houston, we flew to Los Angeles to board our international flight. LAX was stressful to say the least; the international terminal was extremely crowded, and we had a teammate who was in pain. It was only by God’s grace and sheer determination that we boarded our Ethiopia Airlines flight (which, by the way, was a 20 hour flight). The flight was long but uneventful. It was hard to sleep, but Xavier and I binge watched the movies and TV shows available. Before we knew it, we were there.

Saturday, October 3^rd
 We arrived in Addis Ababa, Ethiopia at 6:00am their time. We breezed through immigration and customs and were ready for pick up at the airport at about 7:00. Our team members who have been before said it was the easiest time through customs and immigration they had experienced. It was also the first official stamp in my passport, which was very exciting. (and Xavier’s too—have I mentioned this was his first plane trip ever?) So, at 7:00, we were ready, but no one was there to get us. Our cell phones didn’t work, so all we could do was wait. It was the first time I realized I was very far from home, and I really had no control over my circumstances. It is a very strange feeling.

At about 8:00, we met Semeret for the first time. She was our guide/hostess/translator from Children’s HopeChest. She wasn’t late—they thought we’d be longer going through customs and immigration. She took us to our bus/van, a 12 passenger type and introduced us to our driver for the trip, Dougie. They took us to our guest house, where we stayed that day/night.

OMW, traffic in Ethiopia is so different!! They basically just go where they need to and everyone adapts. There are cars, people, animals and bajaj (basically a covered tricycle with a backseat). To us, it was like Frogger in real life.

At the guesthouse, we met the final member of our team, Cheri from Washington State. She joined us to bring her ministry, Desta Girl, to the Alade Genet Care Point. (Go to www.destagirl.com to find out about it!

We rested for a while, ate some breakfast, then went to visit a family that our team sponsors. That experience was a first of many and was very eye opening. There were 3 siblings, whose mother had died and the fathers were uninvolved. They basically live on their own with neighbors and a hired “nanny” who stays with them part time. Thanks to the sponsorship, they are doing well, going to school and having a safe place to live. At this house, we experienced our first coffee ceremony. This is something Ethiopians do to show hospitality to their guests. The coffee beans are roasted, then ground then brewed. It is DELICIOUS! They also serve popcorn, a wonderful combination.

That night, at the guesthouse, we slept great. I was so thankful for a real bed to lay in. We also had a wonderful fan, which was just the right amount of white noise and air circulation. 

 Sunday, October 4^th

We got up, got showered (hooray!) and ate breakfast. We packed up for the next leg of our journey, a 5 hour drive to Awassa. We left the large bustling city of Addis Ababa and headed out to the country. There were many sights along the way; people on donkey carts, goats, cows, sheep and people. The landscape was very beautiful, with mountains, lakes and farmland. Awassa is a large city, but not quite as active as Addis, with a huge lake as its centerpiece. We stayed at the Lewi Resort, which was lakeside and very beautiful. There were free roaming monkeys on the property, and many days we ate outside by the lake. We ate a late lunch lakeside and enjoyed some settling in time. We left in the late afternoon to go meet with the church leaders at Alade Genet to discuss our plans for the week.

As we drove out to the church, I had all kinds of feelings—anxiety, excitement, anticipation. I’ll never forget the large hill pulling up to the Care Point; what a majestic backdrop for this location! When we arrived, there were all kinds of surprises! The children were there, and they had prepared a show for us! There were signs, music, dancing and a coffee/popcorn ceremony. It was seriously, hands down, one of the most memorable moments of my life. This was it—all that we worked for, prepared for, traveled for. It was even more glorious in person than the pictures we had seen.

And that wasn’t the only surprise they had for us; after the performance, the church leaders took us on a tour of the Care Point. There were some things we expected to see: the water point, the new church building being built, the new classrooms. But we were blown away by the additional things: showers, latrines, playground equipment! There has been some serious progress in the last year!

We met briefly in the office with the CarePoint leaders, Melkamu and Marnesh, and the church elders and leaders. Then it was time to go to the resort and get some rest because Monday morning, we start our time with the kids!

On the road to Awassa.

                

Lake Awassa from the Lewi Resort.

The children greeted us when we first got to the Care Point

This is the new church building that is being built to replace the small turquoise church that is being torn down to build the new road. Above the porch is the Pastor's office.

Xavier got Pepsi instead of coffee.

Coffee ceremony!

This is the water point that our community funded last fall.

                                   

McDaid Family Recap 2014

Wow, 2014 blew our minds! Reflecting back on last year’s update, I never thought the update I am writing today would be what it is.

I have blogged a little bit about our foster care journey since our 2013 update. I went dark in the early spring because we were in a 6 month waiting period where I couldn’t share anything about our kids online. I encourage you to read those blog posts if you haven’t.

Last year’s update stopped with the placement of 6 year old little Mark. When we were presented with him, we were told it would be an adoptive placement and that he would be ours. As with the “foster coaster” rides we’ve experienced all along, we found out about a week into his placement that his mother was fighting to get him back. Long story short, because of the holidays and his situation, he was returned to his mother after living with us for a month. The month we had with him was fun and sweet, and we will always have good memories of him.

When Del went home last fall, we decided that the back and forth of foster care was done for us. We switched our focus to adoptive placements. We started looking for children on the state adoption website, TARE and sifted through bulletins from our agency. We even submitted our paperwork for 2 children we heard about when we were in a court hearing for Del. We were looking for 1 or 2 kids; at this point age didn’t matter as long as we could fit them in our home. On January 16^th, we received 2 bulletins: 1 was for a 15 year old boy and the other was a sibling group of 4. We decided to submit for the 4; it was out of our comfort zone, but there was just something about them. Things moved quickly from there. We met them on February 8^th and then they started coming for weekend visits every weekend until they moved in on March 7^th. I won’t go into all the details, but the oldest boy was unable to stay with our family and moved out in May. But, we adopted the other 3 on September 15^th and they are now a part of our forever family.

We are so blessed to have Xavier, Pierce and Elizabeth in our family. Read on to find out about them!

Here are the current family stats:

Dad, Mark

Mark is still working at Austin Regional Clinic, doing computer programming. This year, he was promoted to supervisor and has 3 programmers working for his team. This has been a challenging year for him adjusting to being a boss, but he loves his job. We are thankful for the security his job gives us. He is the leader of the boys group, Royal Ambassadors at church and is a handbook leader for our AWANA club. He is a great dad, making time to build relationships with all of our kids and has had to do lots of projects this year to make our house ready for 6 kids.

Mark and I got to go to a Texas Rangers game this year. We also got to go to a couple of Round Rock Express games and a couple of stock car races at the track in Kyle.

Mom, Shelley

I am a stay at home mom, but I am definitely busy. I still get to be a part of MOPS, since Kendall is still a preschooler (this is the last year!). Also, for the last 3 years I’ve directed our church’s Heroes Camp, which is quite a task, but I love it so much. It is what our church does for VBS; it is a full day, camp type experience, with field trips and swimming and Bible lessons, oh my! I also am the one that keeps up with all the kids’ appointments, paperwork and training. This year, I got to do the huge stack of adoption paperwork (times 3), which was busy and stressful.

This fall, I started working part time at our local YMCA at the front desk. I love it a lot; it’s a break from home life and a nice change of pace. This year, I also took control of my health and lost 40 pounds. I trained and completed a half marathon in October in a time way better than I expected.

Xavier

Xavier is 13 and in the 7^th grade. Xavier is fun loving and thoughtful. He plays the clarinet in band and likes to play soccer and basketball. He enjoys playing with LEGOs and playing Pokemon. Xavier gave a testimony at church in August about his experience before and during foster care. He has seen God’s loving hand of care in his life all along. Xavier is always willing to help others, and he does it happily without complaining. He is hoping to go on a missions trip to Ethiopia in 2015 to minister to orphans and to see hippos in the wild.

Riley

Riley is 12 and in the 7^th grade this year. He has done really well in band and made the top band at the end of 6^th grade. He is in the youth group this year, and he and Xavier really enjoy going whenever they can.

Riley still enjoys LEGOs and building things. He also creates his own stop motion videos. He is a great big brother. We can count on him to help and be a good role model to all of the kids.

Pierce

Pierce is 11 and in the 5^th grade. He loves to read, especially Warriors books and Rick Riordan books. He loves to figure out how things work and to fix things. He also is a puzzle master; we have quite a few puzzles that I’ve glued together this year. Pierce is also very active and played soccer this fall. He also likes to ride his bike and play Frisbee outside. Pierce also hopes to go to Ethiopia in 2015; he loves to talk about Africa.

Elizabeth

Elizabeth is 9 and in 3^rd grade. She loves to be crafty, drawing and writing all of the time. She also enjoys being creative with her LEGOs and building new things out of her pieces. She loves to collect things like rocks and keys. She’s always got something in her pocket. She enjoys being active outside, throwing the Frisbee or observing bugs.

Tyler

Tyler is 9 and in the 4^th grade. He loves to eat; he never ever seems full. He also loves to read and is enjoying Geronimo Stilton and Diary of a Wimpy Kid books. His good buddy lives across the street and they get together often to play Minecraft or Pokemon.

He also likes building LEGOs. Tyler is always funny and playful. He is a good friend and a good leader in class.

Kendall

Kendall is 4 (almost 5) and is in preschool 2 days a week this year. She is a girly girl, always worrying about how she looks or what she’s wearing. She is the only extrovert in our family and has friends everywhere she goes. She loves princesses, ponies, Ariel and playing pretend. She always wants to do what the big kids are doing, even playing Minecraft or watching Pokemon. She is a joy to have in our family, and we are so thankful for her. She is a sweet sister.

Since the adoption in September, we have been working on adjusting to our new family life. It has been interesting and a big change for us after having been so fluid for the last 3 years. We don’t feel like our story is complete yet, but we do believe that this is a season of “settling”, where we won’t take on much new stuff for our family. We are taking this time to bond and deepen security in our home.  We also want to come alongside our friends and family as they have needs that we can meet to support and encourage them. We are very excited about 2015 and all that God has in store for this family of 8!